It is not all about us ladies, my husband to be has bought about 3 pairs of shoes for the big day and sent all of them back so far, much more diva-ish than me and at 6ft 5 and 15 stone who would have thought it?
If you need to help influence what more than one man is wearing on the big day, e.g. all the ushers and dads and cousins and uncles etc, why not buy them all slightly different in patterned vintage print ties? This will give a lovely quaint look that will tie (excuse the pun) them all in together but doesn't mean they have to match up exactly.
Photos courtesy of Trampoline